Saturday, November 30, 2024

Thanksgiving Survey 2024: Game - Responses

Here are the Common Household & Extended Family responses to this year's survey. This year there were 10 participants, down significantly from last year's record high.

For those of a certain generation, please note that RPG does not stand for “rocket-propelled grenade” but “role-playing game”.  Dungeons and Dragons is an RPG, and some of us turned the school cafeteria, Parcheesi, chess, and the backyard hose into RPGs of sorts.  I am declaring The RPG the winner of this year’s survey.


2024 Thanksgiving Survey:  Game - responses


Question 1: What is a game for which you are thankful?

Responses:


A. I am thankful for Tabletop RPGs, but Pathfinder 2nd edition more specifically. TTRPGs bring me and my friends together and allow us to make great stories!


B. Dungeons and Dragons, as it became a starting example for many role playing games


C. Dungeons and Dragons - it’s helped me find friends far away from home, and given me a place to relax and be myself.


D. Guessing who wrote what Thanksgiving Survey answers.


E.  I am thankful for Writing Challenges, which sparked creativity and hilarity. No, wait, I am thankful for Pictionary Telephone, played in the way only our family plays it, which sparks creativity and hilarity.  Okay, both.


F.  Our weekly trivia nights at the local bar! 


G. Croquet.    Croquet at [location redacted] is serious business


H. Boggle


I.  Pictionary


J. The game of life. It is the most worthwhile game there is.




Question 2: Tell about a game from your childhood.

Responses:


A. I think it would be Wing Commander. I used to watch my dad at the game when I was a kid and it instilled the wonder of gaming inside me. I also remember it was a 12 Floppy Disk game! Now I can have a single hard drive with more than 1,000 games on it, I'm thankful for that as well.


B. Imaginary Scrabble, where you always play at least seven letter words, try to pronounce them, and make up a definition that sounds correct. The only rule is you can't make any real words.


Blog host’s comment:  this was a game made up by Younger Daughter and me, because neither of us could stand the rest of the family’s fierce competition in real Scrabble (™) games.  Such a happy and inventive game!


Imaginary Scrabble board at the end of the game.



C. I have very fond memories of Parcheesi - not only playing the game, but I would set the board up as a building, and narrate the four factions plotting against each other. Dad joined me once, as the elephant bankers, and the camels and the tigers competed to buy ice cream from them, if I recall correctly. 


D.  The cafeteria ladies required us to stay in the cafeteria until lunch was officially over.  In the game, the cafeteria ladies were nazi guards at a prison camp, and we were prisoners of war, whose job was to escape into the playground outside.


E.  The role-playing game of my childhood was chess.  This one-player game consisted of marching the chess pieces around the board in various formations, and may or may not have included weddings.  Another role-playing game which I played during someone else’s childhood was Dinosaurs, which involved marching toy dinosaurs and the occasional toy elephant around the living room in long lines. 


F. Hinky Pinky. I’ve recently been teaching it to my college friends and they’re all highly amused.


G. A fun game was to turn the hose on in the back yard, and then try build dams and levies with mud, bricks and boards, to contain the flood - before everyone perishes!   It’s a race - you against the hose.


H. One game from my childhood is Beyblades. It's a spinning top that you start using a launcher by pulling a cord. On the elementary school playground, we would spin several of them in a small area (often the end of one of the slides) and whoever's Beyblade lasted the longest before falling over was the winner. I have no idea how popular these are now, but I do know there was an anime series based on the toy.



I.  Sorry - we stopped by our neighbor’s house who would often have us in to play games.  No one was home, but we went in anyway and played Sorry. Somehow, we inadvertently let their dog out. We couldn't get it back in the house, so we ran home and never confessed our "crime".  We were very "Sorry" for that adventure!


J. Chess.  And bridge.  I spent many hours playing these games as a child. I played for fun. I played competitively. And then there’s tennis. Also one of my favorite games. And bowling. I really like bowling (10 pins).

My uncle was chess champion of the Maritime Provinces.




I will add that during my childhood we went on numerous loooong car rides, 8 to 10 hour drives between campsites.  That gave us ample opportunity to play Hinky Pinky.



Tuesday, November 19, 2024

Thanksgiving Survey 2024: Game



So. many. dice.


Looking for solace and levity wherever we can find it, in any possible amount, we turn to the Common Household’s autumn tradition, The Thanksgiving Survey.


Thanksgiving survey:  

GAME


1. What is a game for which you are thankful?


2. Tell about a game from your childhood.




If you are so inclined, please feel free to share your answers in the comments.  Or not.  It’s up to you.


Home-made Jeopardy, constructed
for a major birthday







A different sort of game.



Thursday, November 14, 2024

The One World



 Friday Nov 8 2024

Never has driving to a wedding felt more like driving to a funeral.  What an ugly and joyless time we face.  Tears welled up numerous times as I thought about upcoming losses, including losses in my own family for what might have been but now will never be.  


Here’s some of the music we were listening to on the way through Pennsylvania and Maryland.


Magnificat by J.S. Bach

Mary’s Song.  

Luke 1:53

Esurientes implevit bonis et divites dimisit inanes.

The hungry he has filled with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty.


This was always a worthwhile dream, but seems vastly more unreachable now, as we install a full kleptocracy.  We’ve always had oligarchs, but now they are even more in charge.  



Agnus Dei by Samuel Barber

Agnus Dei, qui tollis peccata mundi, miserere nobis.

Lamb of God…have mercy on us.


But me, I have no scrap of divinity left in me, and I am not feeling merciful.  


America, you have chosen.  You will get what you deserve based on these choices.   And whether it is in the very next election, or one further out but in the near future, you will not have any choice. The choice you made in this election has assured that.  Unless… unless… I have no answers for what will forestall this future.   I tried my best, but it was feeble and not enough.


Have fun with your tariffs, whether they are used as negotiating tools or just put in place across the board in some fool’s pipe dream that foreigners will gladly pay for our well being.  Worldwide recession is the prospect.  If recession doesn’t happen because of that, it will certainly happen when the federal government is decimated by the kakistocracy.  



Cedarwood Road by U2

All the green and all the gold

The hurt you hide, the joy you hold

The foolish pride that gets you out the door

And sometimes fear is the only place

That we can call our home

Cedarwood Road

And a heart that is broken

Is a heart that is open

Open, open


I weep for all of the people who will come under attack for who they are in their being, their sexuality, their ethnicity, their disability, their skin color, their accent, their language.  For all the women who will have no control over their own bodies.  For all the women who will be unable to get adequate healthcare for their wanted pregnancies.  


To all those who said that these hatreds and restrictions will not be codified, they already are, in many places. The hatred and violence, institutionalized or not, will become more widespread.  But please, prove me wrong, America.


On Saturday,  while we were waiting for the right time to go to the wedding ceremony, the Common Household husband and I discussed retirement.  


CHH:  If we both retire, then we could go traveling.  Where would you like to go?

Me:  I don’t want to go anywhere anymore.  This [movement toward authoritarianism] is a worldwide phenomenon.

CHH: This is the only world we have. We can’t go to another world.


And that, my friends, is proof that all roads lead to Mary Oliver.  


Poem of the One World


This morning

the beautiful white heron

was floating along above the water

and then into the sky of this

the one world

we all belong to

where everything

sooner or later

is a part of everything else

which thought made me feel

for a little while

quite beautiful myself.


- Mary Oliver



And so, we got into our fancy clothes, put away our tears for a few hours, and attended to the joy of the wedding couple.  The groom is the youngest child of immigrants from an erstwhile Eastern European dictatorship, a family whom my parents helped to settle in this country, with great success.  The situation now drips with irony.


Mary Oliver, I am having trouble seeing beauty in this the one world, and in myself.



Saturday, November 2, 2024

First Lines: October 2024 edition

 Below are the first lines of the books I finished reading in October. 3 fiction, and 3 nonfiction. 

 


 

Book 1

Like millions of workers, I was stewing about my pay.  It was 1977, and after eighteen months at my first newspaper job, I was earning $220 a week.

 

 

Book 2

Waylon Joseph crouched behind Mercury’s ballfield bleachers on the south end of town, smoking a cigarette and hiding from his wife.


 

Book 3

Zero

To write a book against despair implies an intimate acquaintance with the condition.  Otherwise what would be the point?  To write an introduction implies something to introduce, and I have no idea what this book will be.  This is salvo, self-challenge, zero at the bone.

 

 

Book 4

Lustre. That was what had been missing and was suddenly back. The Esslemonts’ Armistice Ball was lustrous in a way feared to have disappeared for ever; and for once, as Daisy Esslemont observed, the emphasis was not on lust.


 

Eastern Screech Owls

Book 5

What is it about owls that so enthralls us?  They appear in the Chauvet Cave paintings of France dating to 30,000 years ago and in the hieroglyphics of ancient Egyptians, in Greek mythology and among the deities of the Ainu people of Japan, in the prints and etchings of Picasso and as couriers in the Harry Potter stories, shuttling between the realm of matter-of-fact Muggles and the magical.  They inhabit our languages and are embedded in our sayings.

 

 

Book 6

The Question of Birth Order

Elspeth Harmony’s triplets arrived in the order that was to dog them for the rest of their lives: first, second, and third.

 


 

The titles and authors revealed:

 

 

Book 1

Beaten Down, Worked Up: The Past, Present, and Future of American Labor

By Steven Greenhouse

416 pages • first pub 2019


I first saw this author on a Jon Stewart podcast.  Glad I found him.  This book gives a really good overview about unions and labor in the US.  Not a comprehensive history, but selections from throughout our history, and delving deep enough to get a decent understanding.

 

 

Book 2

Mercury

By Amy Jo Burns

336 pages • first pub 2024


Interesting characters, who cannot escape the situations they find themselves in.  I like reading a novel set in the area I live in.  The writing style bothered me, but I can’t put my finger on why.   That was redeemed by one particularly hilarious situation in the book, although it is not a humor book but a serious family saga.  


 

Book 3

Zero at the Bone: Fifty Entries Against Despair

By Christian Wiman

320 pages • first pub 2023


Reading poetry is a difficult task.  Reading poetry about despair doubly so.  That’s no surprise –  despair itself is difficult.  This was not a book of just poems, but also some essay-type writing.  After reading it, despair was not eliminated, but I wasn’t expecting that.  This is a good book, but frustrating in some aspects, especially when I couldn’t easily tell what were the author’s own words versus when he was quoting another writer.


I had to wait quite an age to get this book on kindle from the library.   


 

Book 4

After the Armistice Ball (Dandy Gilver series #1)

By Catriona McPherson

303 pages • first pub 2005.


When I saw that the first in the series was available for a low low price on kindle, I decided to try it.  It was a gripping tale without being too awfully gory.  I will likely be reading more in this series.   


 

Seen while canvassing

Book 5

What an Owl Knows: The New Science of the World's Most Enigmatic Birds

By Jennifer Ackerman

328 pages • first pub 2023.


Because of me, the Common Household has several instances of owls in outdoor art, and a few more indoor instances.  I figured it was time to acquaint myself with actual real owls.  I am sure now that I do not want a live owl around the house (I mean, they are RAPTORS), but I continue to be fascinated by them.  Some people go to extreme lengths to learn more about owls and the world should be grateful for that.


One fun thing about this book is reading the interesting names for species of owl:  Flammulated Owl, Elf Owl, Saw-whet Owl, Pygmy Owl, and so many more.  

 

 

Book 6

Bertie Plays The Blues (44 Scotland Street series #7)

By Alexander McCall Smith

310 pages • first pub 2011.


Includes Scottish nudist colony, Masons, and an au pair from Denmark, among other things.  The Scotland Street series is just what the universe ordered for reading material for the end-of-October anxiety.