Tuesday, January 6, 2026

More Light: Things that happened in December 2025

Maybe I could make a card out of this photo.

Things that Happened In December 2025


Witnessed the swearing in of the School Board candidates I worked so hard

to get elected.  All four of our candidates won.

Got my car inspected within the deadline (THAT’s a miracle).  It passed without repairs.  Yay!

Attended a political rally in the cold cold cold.


Attended outdoor Hanukkah menorah lighting with our synagogue in the

cold cold cold.   An act of defiance and an act of bringing more light into the world.

We frozed our tuchuses off.

The Common Household Husband got two flat tires by driving his EV over a large pothole (which was disguised as a puddle, as potholes often are). Do not recommend.

Sang in the church cantata.  Practiced music for family talent show. Band concert.  Symphony.  If it weren’t for the music, we would not be.  

stockings with the obligatory fruits


Wrapped gifts, stuffed stockings, provided ingredients for others to bake cookies.  Ate cookies.  A lot of cookies.

Christmas Cookie Carbohydrate Center



I believe the mud-colored icing
on the United States cookie
was intentional.

Picked up the “Blind Date with a Book” items I ordered from our library’s fundraiser.  I get them mainly because they are so beautifully wrapped.  The librarian picks a book from one of 6 categories (I request the category) but you don’t know what the book is until you open the gift. Each book comes with a pen, and bookmark, a hot chocolate packet, and a peppermint.

My only mistake was not getting one for myself.

Made progress on estate matters.  But it is still not done yet.  Will be two years in March 2026.

The CHH cleaned out some of the shelves in the front closet.  Still more to do there.

Read scripture at Christmas Eve worship.  “In the beginning was the Word …The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overtake it.”  Played piano accompaniment for a duet “Gesu Bambino”.   Bringing more light into this dark world.

Christmas morning with the family. Much fun.

Figured out what to make for dinners.  This had ceased to be an issue in this

empty-nester house, but one adult child came home on Dec 18th to stay for

several weeks, so meal planning was required.  Bonus: That adult child

cooked many of the meals. Yessss!

Kept up with a more hectic work schedule, brought on by the emergence from the federal government shutdown.  One of the agencies whose reports I summarize went from once a week to twice a week publication.  

Had a bunch of medical tests which I had put off until after the election. In retrospect, I do not recommend delaying such things.  Because the ultimate triumph in politics and elections is outliving the f#&*ers and living to vote in every next election.  One test revealed that there is no life-threatening issue behind my pulsatile tinnitus, so it’s relegated to the status of Really Annoying But Not Painful or Dooming.  However, that test uncovered another issue of concern, which, after even further testing, was determined to not be of immediate concern.  Return for repeat testing in a year and don’t think about it until told to.  Another type of test was inconclusive, so more testing must be done.

After Christmas, we joined the extended family for a gathering at a place that housed all 18 of us in one building.  A huge blessing to be with those people.  My generation is now the oldest generation in the family so I count every moment we can spend with them as an unearned moment of grace.  (Except maybe for the moment where someone was stomping around at 11:30 PM in the room over our heads.  That was a moment of tolerance practiced.)

Shenandoah Valley

Finally superglued my shoe!  Have not yet tested it out.

Accompanied the Common Household Husband driving to a New Year’s Eve party in a blinding snowstorm.  Other people had the sense to stay home, but not the CHH.  I went mainly because staying home and wondering if he was lying in a ditch would be more painful.   Made it there and back (by 10:30 PM).


Thursday, January 1, 2026

Favorite books read in 2025

 


Recap of the Reading Year 2025:

I’ll put all the stats at the end because probably I am the only one interested in that.


I have forced myself to pick one and only one, fiction and non-fiction, for each of these three categories.  Did not count re-reads in these selections.


Category 1: The most thought-provoking read of the year.  

Nonfiction: Being Jewish After the Destruction of Gaza: A Reckoning by Peter Beinart. Just finished it yesterday but I predict I’ll be mulling it over for a while.

Fiction: Harlem Rhapsody by Victoria Christopher Murray.


Category 2:  The most excellent writing

Nonfiction: The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny, and Murder, by David Grann.

Fiction:  A Month in the Country By J.L. Carr wins by just a shade vs James by Percival Everett.


Category 3: My favorite which includes reference to tea

Nonfiction:  Beyond Measure: The Hidden History of Measurement from Cubits to Quantum Constants by James Vincent.

Fiction: Dropped Like a Bad Habit (Nun the Wiser Mysteries Book 2) by Melissa Westemeier.




Favorite non-fiction books I read in 2025:

  • The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother By James McBride

  • In the Garden of Beasts: Love, Terror, and an American Family in Hitler's Berlin by Erik Larson (repeat read)

  • On Freedom By Timothy Snyder

  • American Sirens: The Incredible Story of the Black Men Who Became America's First Paramedics By Kevin Hazzard

  • Jesus and the Disinherited By Howard Thurman

  • The Best We Could Do: An Illustrated Memoir (graphic book) By Thi Bui

  • The Life of Frederick Douglass: A Graphic Narrative of an Extraordinary Life David F. Walker Damon Smyth (art), Marissa Louise (colors), James Guy Hill (lettering).

Note: The Wager was captivating, but not a top read for me because, Lordy, the situations described were truly horrible.


Favorite fiction books I read in 2025:

  • James By Percival Everett.  Excellent.  My brother didn’t like it because it wasn’t funny, the way Huckleberry Finn was, but my brother and I both acknowledge that we have lost our sense of humor about some things.  The second half of H.F. I found to be unfunny.

  • A Month in the Country By J.L. Carr   Excellent.

  • Flora and Ulysses: The Illuminated Adventures by Kate DiCamillo with K.G. Campbell (Illustrator) (children’s lit).  Love this book.

  • How to Age Disgracefully By Clare Pooley.  Fun and unserious.

  • Angel of Greenwood By Randi Pink (YA lit; rejected by a local School Board).  Clever way to introduce to youthful readers the big debate between two philosophers of the time.

  • Old Habits Die Hard (Nun the Wiser Mysteries Book 1) By Melissa Westemeier.  

  • Dropped Like a Bad Habit (Nun the Wiser Mysteries Book 2) by Melissa Westemeier.  It’s difficult to say which of these two books I liked best.  This one has a lovely portrayal of local community, but an interesting character is offed.

 

And some others I found quite enjoyable and/or thought-provoking (aside from those listed above)


Nonfiction:

  • Vision: a Memoir of Blindness and Justice by David S. Tatel.

  • Destiny of the Republic: A Tale of Madness, Medicine and the Murder of a President by Candice Millard. What could our nation have been, had he lived?

  • Coming Up Short: A Memoir of My America By Robert B. Reich.


Fiction:

  • Girl Waits with Gun by Amy Stewart.

  • The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon.  Thriller that takes place in the late 18th century. 

  • The Lion Women of Tehran by Marjan Kamali.  

  • Wonder by R.J. Palacio (YA lit).

  • Daughters of Shandong by Eve J Chung.

  • Flora and Ulysses: The Illuminated Adventures Kate DiCamillo (repeat read).

  • Murder at Holly House by Denzil Meyrick.  Amusing throughout.  Wildly ridiculous ending.

  • Three Days in June by Anne Tyler.

  • All 8 of the Alexander McCall Smith books.





Stats


Total books finished

85

of which


Fiction

46

Nonfiction

37

Bible

2



Publication dates (not incl Bible)


19th Century

2

20th Century

11

2000-2019

30

2020-2024

24

2025

6



Earliest publication year

1881

The Posthumous Memoirs of Brás Cubas

The other 19th Century book

1884

Huckleberry Finn



Included references to tea

8

Included character w/disability

7

Children/YA lit

3

For book discussion

19

Recommended by someone I know

7

Recommended by booktuber

2




Stats on # of pages



Longest nonfiction

509

The Feminine Mystique

Longest fiction

432

The Frozen River

Average per month

1,954

pages

Average book length

276

pages